if you hate yourself for those flaws you have, just think, no body else likes their flaws. thats just how things are. youre not the only person out there with flaws. dont ever think you have to be that tall, 00 pants, blonde walking down the street. because honestly, youll never be her. yea, you could be blonde, tall, 00, too, but no one will ever be exactly like her. hell, she even has flaws! she is her, you are you, he is him. no one will be the same. ever. your flaws make you, YOU. dont harm yourself over them, dont harm yourself because someone pointed the one thing you dont like about yourself out. its not worth it. harming yourself wont fix that flaw. truth is, nothing will. but whats also the truth, again, is that every single person in this world has flaws, youre not the only one.no one is absolutely perfect but were all pretty damn close to it when were being ourselves. when people say “ew, that persons ugly, id hate to be friends with them” all i have to say is, if the whole world was blind, no one could judge the outside. dont think “ohh this and this is wrong with me, ill never find that one girl or that one guy.” you will. may not be as soon as you want it to be, but just think, that guy or that girl is waiting to meet YOU. they may not know your name yet, know what you look like yet, know your story yet, but you have to keep yourself around for them, because theyll love every single bit of you and that is when youll realize its all worth it. dont be afraid to be yourself.

next thing. sexuality. im straight but against hate. i have a few gay and lesbian friends. and honestly they are the best people ive ever met. because they have been put through so much shit in their lives all because of their own liking. i just dont get the whole hating gay people thing. why are they called “different”? why do some feel they have to say “i have a problem” before coming out? why do they even have to come out? should i “come out” and say that i “have a problem” that my boobs arent exactly the same size? no because the answer ill get is “so many other girls are like that, its normal.” ok. there are many people that are gay, its not “not normal” or a “problem.” why cant gay people be allowed to be open about it? they should be. they should be able to feel just as comfortable as the next person out there. youre sexuality is not a flaw. please, dont ever think it is. dont ever think that you need to end your life because of the shit people give you. in fact, take that shit people give you and use it. use it to make you better than them. use it to prove them wrong. dont let people say “oh youre a fag, youll make it no where in life. youre a disgrace.” fuck that. thing is, success and happiness doesnt matter on your sexuality. in 10 years, you could be the one to make it farther than that person who told you you were going no where because of your sexuality. so think, if you rid yourself now, youll never be able to prove them wrong. and lets face it, proving the people that put you down wrong, is a great feeling. love yourself :)

dont ever be afraid to be yourself just because youre afraid of other opinons. and if you dont put yourself out there and be yourself and people bully you about it, just know that they arent worth it. they arent worth putting yourself down because of it. they arent worth it because they dont matter in your life. does your life and how it turns out depend on them, what they say, what they think? no. so dont listen to them. they arent worth it. beyou.

i cant say ill know exactly what youre going through. i cant say ill know exactly what to say. but i can say that ill listen. and sometimes thats all people need. even if you feel like i wont understand so “why bother telling her”, tell me. because i know from experience, even if someone cant tell me the perfect answer, just telling it to someone helps. it really does. if you want to tell me something you just want to get off your chest but dont want me to know who it is, send it anon and put “dont reply” at the end of it and i wont post it. just say it. ill listen.if you want to talk about something, ill reply privately. im here for every single one of you.

(Source: dumb-phuck)